Ngithole ukuthi abafana abaningi abakazi lutho ngezindebe zokushaya indlwabu noma abakaze bayibone into yangempelaindlwabu indebekubukeka sengathi.
Izindebe zokushaya indlwabu nazo zingamathoyizi omuntu siqu angajwayelekile abafana abangalokothi bakhulume ngawo.Ngosuku lwami lokuzalwa eminyakeni eyishumi edlule, umngane wami omuhle wanginika inkomishi ye-silicone yokushaya indlwabu esongwe ngokuqinile ngepulasitiki emnyama, eyangivulela umnyango wezwe elisha!Engilokotha ukukusho wukuthi akekho umfana ongakaze ashaye indlwabu eyedwa.Uma usuhlangana no-aindlwabu indebe, awusoze wafuna ukusebenzisa izandla zakho ukuxazulula inkinga futhi!Leli ithuluzi lomlingo elingaxazulula ngempela izidingo zabafana futhi likhulule ukucindezeleka.Namuhla ngithanda ukwabelana nawe ngezincomo zokuthenga izinkomishi zokushaya indlwabu!
Yini ngempela aindlwabu indebengoba?
① Xazulula izidingo zangempela ngaphandle kokusebenzisa izandla zakho!
Njengoba igama liphakamisa, inkomishi yokushaya indlwabu ikusiza ukuthi ushaye indlwabu.Esikhundleni sokusebenzisa izandla zakho esikhundleni sezandla zakho ngemikhiqizo ye-latex, ingakulethela isipiliyoni esiseduze nesomuntu wangempela.Ihlukaniswe kakhulu izigaba ezintathu ezinkulu: isikhunta sangempela, i-AVaumlingisikazimabashaya indlwabu nezinkomishi zokushaya indlwabu zikagesi, futhi mina ngokwami ngithanda i-AVaumlingisikazimabashaya indlwabu, abancane ngosayizi futhi abanolwazi lwangempela.Uma usebenzisa izandla zakho isikhathi eside, ngeke nje kulethe umonakalo omkhulu emzimbeni wakho, kodwa izandla zakho kancane kancane zizokwenza ubuchopho bakho buzwele nakakhulu ngemva kokushaya indlwabu ngayinye, ngakho ubuchopho buzokhumbula njalo uma wenza.Ngokuzayo, uzoyalwa ukuthi usebenzise isivinini esisheshayo, amandla amakhulu, kanye nomthelela onodlame ukuze uzuze injabulo esheshayo, okuzokwenza ukuthi isikhathi sakho sibe sifushane futhi sibe sifushane.Elinye iphuzu liwukuthi abangane abaningi bazozizwa bengenalutho ngemva kokushaya indlwabu futhi bawele ekuzisoleni okungapheli nokuphindaphinda.Uma usebenzisa inkomishi yokushaya indlwabu, ngeke ube nokukhathazeka okunjalo, ngoba iseduze kakhulu nomphumela wangempela.Ezinye zazo ziphinde zibe nomsebenzi wokushisa.Ngeke nje uzwe ubuhle ngaphakathi kwenkomishi yokushaya indlwabu ngokuthinta, kodwa futhi ungazizwatyena injabulo lokushisa komzimba!
②Zivocavoce ukuzwela kwenduku futhi uthuthukise ukusebenza okuqinile kokulwa!
Ingabe aindlwabu indebengempela kangcono kunezandla?Kuyiqiniso, ngoba ngaphezu kokukunikeza umuzwa ongokoqobo, izinkomishi zokushaya indlwabu zingabambezela/zinciphise ukuzwela kwakho.Abanye abasebenzisi abathuthukile bazosebenzisa izinkomishi zokushaya indlwabu ukuqeqeshwa kwansuku zonke ukunciphisa ukuzwela kwepipi.Ngenxa yokuthi abanye abangane bazwela kakhulu futhi ngenxa yokushaya indlwabu ngokweqile futhi njalo, bangase bangakwazi ukubekezelela nokungqubuzana nokuncane.Ingasaphathwa ukuthi ekuphileni kwangempela, okokuqala lapho unokuxhumana okuseduze nentombazane oye wayithanda isikhathi eside, ngokuqinisekile uzozinikela ngokushesha!Abaqalayo bayelulekwa ukuthi basebenzise uhlobo lokudlala kancane lwenkomishi yokushaya indlwabu kuqala, kancane kancane baqonde ukuzwela komzimba wakho kanye nenjabulo indebe ekulethela yona, futhi usebenzise amandla akho ngokuhamba kancane futhi uhlole izimo ezihlukene zamashaneli angaphakathi.Yehlisa ukuzwela, ngithembe, lo mkhuba uyasebenza ngempela!
Naka amaphuzu amane abalulekile uma usebenzisa aindlwabu indebe!
①Nakuba izinkomishi zokushaya indlwabu zizinhle, ungazisebenzisi ngokweqile!Nakuba inkomishi yokushaya indlwabu iyinhle, lisekhona igebe elikhulu uma liqhathaniswa nomuntu wangempela.Okokuqala, iindlwabu indebeayikwazi ukushintsha izikhundla kanye nenkontileka ngokusebenza kwakho, okusho ukuthi ayikwazi ukusebenzelana nawe njengomuntu wangempela!Okwesibili, ngemva kwakho konke, kungcono ukunikeza ipipi lakho isiteshi esingumgunyathi, noma ukulivumela libambe iqhaza ekulweni kwangempela.Mina ngincoma ukuthi ngisebenzise inkomishi yesiteshi kabili ngeviki!
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Jan-02-2024